clubbing

Saturday night was a cool night because I went clubbing with that girl Trudy I was telling you about. The one is who only 25 but is cute and knows how to cook. First we hit up a pub of sorts and drank some beers and had some honey garlic wings and chatted about food. Being a cook, I could talk about food and cooking for hours on end and never get bored. Not only am I a cook, but I really love to eat and so that makes for a great combination. There were a lot of other people in the pub when we went there because they were still wrapping up dinner and there were a lot of guys there that I could notice checking her out. I felt good about this because it meant it was a big ego stroke for me and I like to have my ego stroked among other things

We stayed at the pub until 10pm and they were playing really good music. When I say good music I mean they were playing rock from the 60's, 80's, 90's and modern stuff like The Killers and Kings of Leon. I really like both of those bands a lot but I also like dance club music or whatever you want to call it. I like house music and I also like trance and when I go to a club I can totally get into that kind of music but if I am on my own there is no way that I would be playing that kind of music.

The club was bouncing. It was really packed, so packed that it was shoulder to shoulder and it was tough to move around but eventually we squeezed our way to the bar and ordered a couple of drinks. We then muscled our way into the very center of the dance floor and danced for a long time was really fun. I kept going and fetching us more drinks and every time I went through the crowd I could feel girls looking at me and I was like damn this must be my night. I must be radiating some kind of mystical higher value that they are all picking up on. It was a pretty cool feeling and it was very good for my ego. The thing is that once you finally reach the bar then you have to wait there wedged sideways between the people on the left and the people on the right. One time I was at the bar and I was wedged between 2 smoking hot girls and their tits were rubbing on my arm and they were laughing and talking to each other kind of through or over me and a few times they were touching me and I was god damn this is awesome.

At the end of the night we left and found ourselves a taxi and she turned to me in the taxi and was like "Let's go to my place" and I was like sure. So we arrive at her apartment building and she lives on the 10th floor. I was just standing there beside her while she was fumbling through her purse for her keys and then she just stopped and looked up at me then reached out with her hand and grabbed my face and then kissed me and I was like ok cool. We went upstairs and as soon as we walked in the door she started kissing me again and then we did that thing that you see in the movies where two people will start at the door kissing and not stop kissing until they reach the bedroom as they rip their clothing off. It was an awesome night and I remember waking up the next morning with a huge grin on my face. Man I love internet dating. I am too tired to talk about my other date on Sunday so I will leave that for another post.

Well that totally sucked. I got the stomach flu really bad and I have been out of commission for like 2 weeks. Finally this week I am feeling better. Tonight is Friday night and I feel ok but I think I will be 100% tomorrow so I want to save myself for then so I can do it up hard ya know. I am going out clubbing tomorrow with this girl Trudy that I met online. She is a real blond, I haven't seen that many true blonds in Philadelphia. I am not sure hwy that is but it is a rarity that I have observed because I guess I am very observant or at least I think I am hehe. She is 25 and she works at the mall in some retail store. Yeah I know she doesn't have much ambition but she is cute as hell and she said she knows how to cook. So if things go well clubbing with her we will put her to the test and see just how good she can cook

I have also been chatting with this girl named Kathy who is a redhead and who is 27 years old. She works in a dentist office as a receptionist and she is very dainty. She is quite thin and looks kind of fragile and she has a very soft voice. I think it is sexy as hell but she thinks that people look at her like she is weak or a weirdo or something. I guess her voice is a little high pitched and can sound kind of weird and maybe that is one of the reasons she is so shy but I think it's really cute and the fact that she is really hot and has huge natural breasts makes it cute, otherwise if she was not so hot it would not be so cute. I am not sure if it is something I could tolerate long term but man I want to bang her hard.

I am also talking to a girl named Betty and she is really hot too. Her name is so old fashioned and I always think of Betty from the Flintstones especially because she has short 50's style black hair just like Betty from the show did. She is anything like her though because this Betty has facial piercings and tattoos and dresses kind goth and over the top. She too is really thin and tall and she has a nice booty on her which seems really out of place but I am not complaining. I am going to take her to the movies on Sunday.

It is now the year 2010 and I am back with a vengeance yo! I decided that I want to find a new job. My boss is a real mean guy and I think I can do better somewhere else. Also the rest of the kitchen staff where I work are really sloppy and lazy and I just can't run a kitchen with that kind of help so I have been talking to the owners of several restaurants in town and a few of them are considering letting their chef go and bringing me on. This of course means that I would be taking someone else's job from them but I don't care because I need to look out for number one.

I also want to meet a girl that can cook, because every girl I have been with is always wanting me to do all the cooking of course and as much as I love to cook for people, it would be nice to be cooked for, to be waited on once in a while. Also I want to make sure the girl can cook WELL because I don't want to be eating crappy food.

I have a couple new girls I have been chatting with online and I am going to be going on a few dates this week. Things have been slow in the love department because of the holidays - everyone is busy including myself but I am ready to kick things into high gear now. I will update again once I have something lined up for sure or after the date so I can give you guys the low down on how it went. I am definitely going to be going clubbing this weekend and I hope I can meet a girl from online there and we can club together.

Not much happened with that girl Mika. After the movie we made out a bit on my couch and then eventually I drove her home. She said she wanted to take things slow so whatever. She can move as slow as she wants. My speed aint slowing down for no one. I will continue to pursue other chicks. Sorry it's been almost 2 weeks since my last post. Been really busy at work and with some other bullshit stuff. I burnt my hand at work last week and it still hurts now a bit. Was a real pain in the ass to go out partying on the weekend with my hand being damaged etc but I still had a good time.

On Saturday night I took this girl out named Pepper. Yes Pepper is her real name, her parents were hippies. She was really short and petite and had a really cute smile and short choppy crop top style brown hair. She was totally into the same emo faggy type music that I like so that was a good thing. She looked kinda rugged and immature in her pics online so I decided to just take her to Appleby's for dinner and figured we would go club hopping after that. We didn't even drink anything at the restaurant and I was wondering if she was gonna think I was cheap cuz I took her to such a regular place and not some fancy restaurant. She seemed cool with it. When we left Appleby's she said she wanted to smoke a joint before we started to drink and hit the clubs etc and I was like I didn't bring any with me, and she was like no worries and pulled a joint out of her purse which I thought was a bit odd and I was like whatev let's burn this mofo. So we got baked out of our minds which I hate to do before going to a club because sometimes it makes me paranoid and anti-social which are the two traits you don't want to bring with you to a club. Shyness is nice, and shyness can stop you, from doing all the things in life you'd like to. (smiths quote for you newbs)

First we went to a club in Philly called "Shampoo" and then after that we went to "Transit Night Club". Had a lot of fun dancing and shit. All they played was trance and electronic which I don't mind but I was surprised to see this girl dancing so much when she swore that she was into rock and 90's alternative. A bit of an enigma she was. I noticed a lot of guys checking her out. I was checking out a lot of girls in the place to see what I might be missing and there were definitely some hotties up in that mofo. I ran into an old friend from high school in there named Peter and he was telling me he is big into paintball and wanted to hook up and go paintballing sometime which I thought was cool. Never done that before and will be cool to hang out with my old friend again. He just recently moved back to Philly after having lived out in Cali for a while with some girl but that relationship didn't work out. I told him about the online dating site I use now and introduced him to my date and his eyes opened wide and he said he was gonna sign up as soon as he got home. Hopefully this means we could go on some double dates sometime.

Toward the end of the night my date was getting pretty drunk, well we were both getting pretty drunk but she was showing it a lot more than I was. I was fine and could have kept going, but she was getting pretty wobbly so I thought I better call it a night before she got sick and hurled on my nice shoes We took a taxi back to her place and she totally wanted me to come upstairs with her but I wasn't sure if she really knew what she was talking about and I thought I better just leave things as they are and not bang her, and if she really DID want to sleep with me, it would simply mean that she would want me even more for turning her away. I will let you know the deal on that once I hear from her... hmm it is already Tuesday morning - I think I am gonna message her and see whats up.