Philly Dating Scene

Met A Girl Using A Text Message Chat Site

nospam@example.com (Josh) — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 19:37:24 -0400

I have been considering starting text message dating... Essentially it is similar to on line chatting except that you send text messages and get to meet up with brand new people that way. I thought it'd be great to give it a try due to the fact I am continuously using my Blackberry. I eventually signed up to TextNDate and gave it a try. A buddy of mine sent me the url through Facebook and actually hyped it up, so i decided what the hell.

Straight away I met this young lady from Chestnut Hill. This lady sounded pretty interesting, works out we enjoy many of the very same music and movies, and went to the same college. We actually made plans to go out this friday for a movie so I'll post how it went (and if interacting with ladies using your cellular telephone truly works out).

I matched tons of additional girls also, some good and some somewhat odd, nevertheless I made the decision only to focus on a couple of mainly because it is a good deal to keep track of! I wish I can figure out how to consolidate my contacts on my cell phone, that would help to make this a ton less difficult to deal with. There are actually a surprising level of ladies by Philadelphia to choose from.

The best element about that was I could send out laid-back messages even though I had been in the office, at the mall, anything, just like I had been texting my guys... From time to time being fixed to the pc becomes tedious you understand? I had a rather entertaining discussion with this one girl despite the fact that I had been waiting for the bus even! Regardless for everybody who is curious about everything just click here to see TextNDate, you need to for sure.

Finally a girl with some personality

nospam@example.com (Josh) — Tue, 11 May 2010 12:00:00 -0400

I have gone out a few times with Fiona but I still have not slept with her. I figured I would have been able to bang her by now but it just hasn't worked out. I am not sure if she is the right girl for me. What I decided to do this morning is to start punking her off. I am going to cancel my plans with her for this weekend and she how she responds. I have been giving her far too much of my time without getting any poon. That shit does not fly and that is not how I roll. It will be interesting to see how she responds when I start to be cold on MSN and shit. I need to test her and see how much she really likes me, hell I might even come right out and ask her why we haven't had sex yet. I should really do that because I said I was going to try and be as honest as possible this time around when it comes to dealing with women and shit but that is easier said than done. Let's see how this tactic goes first. It's always what I wanted to have a chick that is cool and understands me and tolerates me and has a nice personality and is not a dead fish. I don't know why I keep meeting this women that have no personality or passion. Maybe I am being punished for something I did in another life.

I wish you would step out from that ledge my friend. I used to love that song and I think now that I am older I really get what he was saying. Anyways like I said before I was talking to like 8 different girls. That number is down to like 4 now. Some of them I simply never see on MSN anymore so I can only assume that they have deleted me from their contact list or maybe even blocked me lol who knows. So I got these 4 different girls that I am working on. A couple of them actually have a personality which has been nice. Sometimes I meet girls and then get them on MSN and then once I start talking to them on MSN they just sit there and I have to ask them a million questions and they never ask me any. The thing is, that some of them will literally just sit there and answer anything I ask them. They are very forthcoming but they never initiate anything and I think that speaks volumes about their personality or lack of it I guess. One girl named Monica has 2 kids but she is really hot and she works out 5 days a week. She showed me a picture of her in Cuba last year and she is like ripped with a 6 pack and shit.

I told her we should get together for coffee sometime so on Sunday I told her to meet me at this cool coffee shop called
Walnut Bridge Coffee House. The place is pretty cool inside and it wasn't that busy. I got there a bit early and managed to scope out a nice booth where I could see everything in the place. I dunno why but I like having my back to a wall so I can see everything just like Shane did Most people will not get that reference unless you have read the book Shane which I did obviously duh. She arrived about 5 minutes late which is fine, sometimes girls arrive really late and that pisses me off because I hate sitting there like a donkey wondering if I got stood up or not. She was really cute in real life and we chatted for a couple of hours there over coffee and I was really impressed by the fact that she DID have passion and did have an interesting personality. I wanted to take the date over to a restaurant so we could grab dinner but she said she had to go and meet her family for dinner and I understood that. I wanted to kiss her when we left but the opportunity never presented itself. I have been chatting with her a bit since then and she wants to go out again this coming weekend.

She was looking fine

nospam@example.com (Josh) — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 15:00:00 -0400

She was looking fine is the only thing I could think about as I sat there in front of her apartment. Looked much better than she did in her photos I saw online. I guess most people aren't very photogenic. I know I am not. I guess I should back up and tell you about meeting her and stuff. As you know I had Peter my friend the photographer take some pictures of me with his uber setup and man they turned out great. I decided to go with a black and white for my online profile pics. I used 5 pictures all showing me at various angles and in different settings and there are no pics of me with my shirt off. As tempting as it is to put those kinds of pictures up, they are a turn off to a lot of women. As I was reading other girl's profiles some of them specifically said do not bother messaging me if your picture is you with your shirt off. I think you have to build comfort with a woman first and you want to convey the idea of non threatening at first, you can get to the sexy stuff later once they trust you. So yeah redid the profile with the good new pictures tried to make it as intelligent and as classy as possible and that is what is working for me. Of course it means nothing unless I target the right kind of girl that will respond to a profile like that which is what I want.

So far I am talking to 5 girls actively but these are all high quality women that I would hook up with. They have the physical and emotional characteristics that I am looking for however one of them, the one I like the most has two kids. I am not so sure if I want to attach myself to that kind of baggage right now but she seems like such a down to Earth sexy girl. Wow I can hear people yelling "fuck you" and banging around in there kitchen lol. Anyways, you think there are nice places in the world, but then you go there and finally find a nice place and what happens? Someone yells fuck you or someone writes fuck you and then you are depressed again realizing that no nice places exist in the world. That is a reference from The Catcher in the Rye in case you don't know. If you haven't read that book then well you are behind in the times yo. Anyhoo, so I'm waiting in line at the bank, oh wait that's Andrew Dice Clay... oh yeah so I'm chatting with this girl who has the two kids and she is all like we should go out for coffee sometime and I am like sounds good so we met up 3 days ago at this coffee place here in Philly called La Colombe Torrefaction Inc. It is all swanky and shit. Oh wait I was first talking about another date I had... I will tell that story later this one is more recent.

Her name is Fiona and and she is really petite and 27. She works in a lab as an assistant which sound kinda cool and I can picture her with those cute glasses on and a white lab coat We sat and had coffee and I was just looking at her the whole time like damn this girl is so cute. She is attractive and hot and shit but cute was the word that kept popping up in my mind. I like cute girls. She told me she was in a long term relationship and she was wary about guys cuz her last guy cheated on her and now she is not sure what to trust. There wasn't much I could say to that, I mean words means nothing. We sat there for a long time and drank coffee and talked about various things and life in general, though my thoughts may be wrong, they may even be perverted, she'll hear me out and won't easily be converted to my way of thinking. In fact she will often disagree. Those are lyrics from the song "Somebody" by Depeche Mode. Anyways, so after we were done coffee I asked her if she wanted to go out for dinner but she said no because she had to do a lot of work that night for the next day for some big project so we just said goodbye outside the coffee shop but I was able to kiss her before she left. I have been chatting with her all the time now on the phone and gonna see her again this weekend.